Maintaining a more stabilize and more develop society is really very difficult. It depends on almost everyone, especially the young generations. However, in many countries, schools have severe problems with students’ behaviors. I think that there are a lot of causes leading to this.
First, bad students’ behaviors can be traced from unhappy family or lack of parental attention. During the school age, schools only manage their students about 15,000 hours; family even has to be responsible for their children about 90,000 hours (1). With a discordant family, parents always quarrel, fight, or throw money aroundon booze, gambling, etc, and children will imitate their parents, which has effect on students’ negative behaviors. Another reason is living in a unperfected family, for instant, being orphaned, parent’s divorcement, or judicial separation. This reason is also very serious because the children will have emotional deprivation, lonely feeling, etc , and they will be under negative pressure. However, there are a lot of parents are good persons, have enough knowledge to educate their children. Instead of educating children, they only care about earning money, shift responsibility for school, au-pair, and overindulge, so they don’t understand, oversee, take care of their children. Therefore, students become hard-headed, lazy, etc, and have bad lifestyle, thought deviations.
Server problems with students’ behaviors can be result of bad friends.Students go to school every day to learn, they learn from their teachers, friends, so having bad friends and lack of parental attention will influence them. They imitate bad behaviors from bad friends and become depraved. Therefore, a good learning environment will have positive effects for students.
Besides, bad students’ behaviors can result from over exposure to violence, depraved cultural items. Nowadays, science and technology develop, so students can approach the bad easily from internet, TV, books, etc. They spend all day on computer, TV. Consequently, they are affected violent from games, films and severe behaviors from depraved cultural items.
In conclusion, there are lots of aspects impacting students’ behaviors. To meliorate bad students’ behaviors, we need other measures with supports from both their family and school. It’s really important to better the young generation.